Why men are afraid of love?
Here are some reasons that make them always get drawn.
Love has no limits, nor recipes from which you can learn how to act, however, men are afraid and this is serious. In love there are no rules, and perhaps for these reasons men are fearing, who are accustomed to have control of every situation. However there are those who reject because of painful experiences that may have passed before, which may not have passed completely or others that they avoid because of the trauma they have passed in childhood.
It's called philophobia and it is the Fear of Love. Affects men of all ages, especially those most accomplished in their professional profile.
Fear of change
Compared to women, men faces personal changes with stiffness, preferring to stay in tradition. This retreat to a safe superficial world it limits them under sentimental profile, making cold, even to love.
Fear of losing their freedom
There are men who are afraid of love, because they are afraid of responsibility. Make a commitment to a significant relation, means to be correct and responsible, but this means alarm for men.
Fear of losing control
Applies to all men, especially for those who are used to manage or control any movement at work, and in every other area of life. Love is unpredictable and requires to let yourself free.
Fear to join with someone
Selfishness of men is the subject of endless debate. Perhaps for this reason they have difficulties to join with another person. This union deprives an important part of themselves.
Fear of pain
The past with its painful shadows, which come back and knock on the conscience in moments that you do not expect.
Fear of rejection
It is a fear that strikes both sexes. Usually, it is associated with childhood and parents. A child who was felt overlooked, tends to have more fear of rejection and abandonment. And as a result, prefers to avoid the bonds of love.
Afraid to feel weak
For various reasons, women are always more likely to tell their side of the weak, cry in public, show emotions, express feelings easily. The opposite happens with men. As young they're taught to not ever seek, to kill off the susceptible. That which in love should be revealed.
Afraid to show their dark side
Always in terms of fear to lose control and to tell their evil side, inj
love can not pretend for long, sooner or later everything comes to light even against their will./Albasun/